Well sorry to the bearer of bad news as a guy, but I am exactly the same as you, and would probably be described as good looking and I have exactly the same problem.
And it doesnt go away, I imagine you can work at it and mayby that will help, I never really gave a shit one way or another since I never thought I would live as long as I have, but if you just ignore it thinking you will "eventually" come out of your shell, then you wont and the older you get the more awkward the exchanges will be, especially with females. I know the feeling you are talking about with the short responses and freezing or even awkwardly answering. Good luck, wish I could give you better advice.
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Well sorry to the bearer of bad news as a guy, but I am exactly the same as you, and would probably be described as good looking and I have exactly the same problem.
And it doesnt go away, I imagine you can work at it and mayby that will help, I never really gave a shit one way or another since I never thought I would live as long as I have, but if you just ignore it thinking you will "eventually" come out of your shell, then you wont and the older you get the more awkward the exchanges will be, especially with females. I know the feeling you are talking about with the short responses and freezing or even awkwardly answering. Good luck, wish I could give you better advice.