Looking at this with an open mind, I agree that it is more common. Who am I to determine normality? Seein as how you are unrelated and not old enough to be her father, I would think the chances of attraction occurring would be higher than in most step relationships. Especially if both individuals are physically attractive. It seems you know there should be boundaries and don't want to damage her emotionally or you wouldn't have stated you would leave if she developed feelings for you. Regarding your closing question, you should be concerned that she might develop inappropriate feelings. That is a risk in any blended family and follows law of attraction. This is battle YOU have to face yourself. Cutting back on the physicality would be my start if I were in your shoes. Good Luck.
Is it normal to be attracted to your stepdad/stepdaughter?
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Looking at this with an open mind, I agree that it is more common. Who am I to determine normality? Seein as how you are unrelated and not old enough to be her father, I would think the chances of attraction occurring would be higher than in most step relationships. Especially if both individuals are physically attractive. It seems you know there should be boundaries and don't want to damage her emotionally or you wouldn't have stated you would leave if she developed feelings for you. Regarding your closing question, you should be concerned that she might develop inappropriate feelings. That is a risk in any blended family and follows law of attraction. This is battle YOU have to face yourself. Cutting back on the physicality would be my start if I were in your shoes. Good Luck.