Is it normal to be attracted to women after post menopause

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Been married for a long time. Since post menopause, I haven't had sex with my husband, now 5 years. I've been feeling attracted to women. A lady that I work with, in her mid 20s, and I have been very friendly with one another. I'm in my mid 50s. A few weeks ago, she picked me up to go shopping. When we went back into her car from shopping, she told me that she is attracted to me and kissed me. We kissed for a long time. We really felt a connection and have seen each other several times. My husband has stuck by me and he earns a great income. He knows that our marriage is different than what it used to be. I have time to go see my young girlfriend. She has helped me confirm my attraction to women and especially her, as she's 30 years younger.

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  • McBean
    7 years ago

    Sorry to say this, but your false sense of innocence is sickening. When men stick by scummy females like you they experience nothing but pain and misery. Don't tell me you are not a piece of scum, you are only thinking of yourself.

    If you have a shred of decency, you will try to find a fuck buddy for your husband. If you get a fuck buddy for him, at least it acknowledges that you care about his feelings. Are you so selfish that you don't suck him off every few days? What the fuck? Look at yourself in the mirror. You're not in 9th grade anymore.

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    • FatFeministPorkProducts
      7 years ago

      Oink oink oink!!!!! you are sexist womyn hater!!!! oink oink oink!!!!! all womyn should be lesssssbeeeeeeeins!!!!!! oink oink oink!!!!!! meeeeeeesaaaaaaaaaajinnnneeeeeeeeeee!!!!! oink oink oink!!!!!!! all straight men are rapists!!!!! oink oink oink!!!!!!! old fat womyn are beeeeeeewwteeeeeefull!!!!!!!!! oink oink oink!!!!!!! womyn need men like fish need bicycle!!! oink oink oink!!!!!!! men have no feelings!!!! oink oink oink!!!!!!

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      • BonerPenis
        7 years ago

        I think u sexy wana see my boner penis

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        • FatFeministPorkProducts
          7 years ago

          Oink oink oink!!!! Your vienna sausage? Oink oink oink!!!!

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  • kariann789
    7 years ago

    Completely normal, I have a friend who was my first in high school who I still see and play around with once a month when my husband goes out of town for a couple of days for work, and one of her other girlfriends is 57

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      You sound like my type.

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  • sara2017
    7 years ago

    If you're asking if it's abnormal to be attracted to a woman after a lifetime of being attracted to men, it's not. I don't know if menopause plays a role in this for you, but a person's sexuality might change over the lifetime.
    But after reading you story I'd like to point out some things.
    I'm not passing judgement on anything, but if we face the facts, you are cheating on your husband. It's not wrong to be attracted to another woman, but if you pursue a relationship with anyone, man or woman, behind your spouse's back, that is unethical and immoral. Maybe you should be focusing on that issue rather than this.

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  • BLOWMENOW
    7 years ago

    Have you seen each other naked yet ?
    Have you slept together or showered together ?
    Have you fingered each other's cunts yet ?

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  • Jayemen
    7 years ago

    Absolutely..Female business friend was already a gorgeous, German blonde who guys panted over and constantly hit on, and had an amazing body as it was. Then, she hit menopause, her full, heaving boobs got bigger, and she just seemed more calm, sexy, sensual, and at peace with herself. More confident (as if she wasn't before..she was). Was and is just amazing.

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  • FatFeministPorkProducts
    7 years ago

    Oink oink oink!!!!! You go gurrrl!!!!!!!! oink oink oink!!!!!! All womyn are never wrong!!!!! Oink oink oink!!!!! Take all your husband's money and give him nothing!! oink oink oink!!!!! All men are rapists!!!!! oink oink oink!!!!! It's okay to be selfish because all womyn are oppressed by sexist men!!!!! oink oink oink!!!!! All womyn should be lesssssbeeeeeins!!!!! oink oink oink!!!!!

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    • RandyRascal
      7 years ago

      Hahaha. You are interesting. You're an asshole. You live by the social ethic of assholeism. You are also sickening to listen to and to look at. BUT, you are CREATIVE about expressing your degenerate views of the world.

      IIN thrives on contributions like yours. Please keep participating and go fuck yourself. After you have completed fucking yourself, log back in and share all the details. Lol.

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      • FatFeministPorkProducts
        7 years ago

        Oink oink oink!!!! Fuck my belly fat rolls with your inchworm!!!!! Oink oink oink!!!!!!

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