Is it normal to be attracted to someone you barely know?

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I have a friend that I've known for three years. I barely see her anymore and have never really known her that well. For some reason I'm still attracted to her, I can't get her out of my head even though I go months at a time without seeing her and when I see her I barely talk to her more than "Hi." I don't know her at all, I'm not even sure if we'd get along but I'm still attracted to her. Is this normal?

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  • beautifulenigma
    14 years ago

    It's normal. Try to get to know her better!

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  • Gabriell
    14 years ago

    I Have the EXACT SAME PROBLEM(and i have a gf too) Please, has somebody had the same problem? What has he done about it?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      14 years ago

      I had that problem! I had no idea what to do either. but trust me, over time you'll get over her

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  • ValerieBernadette
    14 years ago

    It's called chemistry. :)
    It's normal.

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  • ValerieBernadette
    14 years ago

    It's called chemistry. :)
    Very normal, I think.

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  • justlikeheaven
    14 years ago

    i don't know if it's normal, but i definately know what you mean. i've hung out with this guy (with my friends) about five times now, and even the first time i met him, there was just something about him. i don't see him all that much, and he has a girlfriend. we don't really talk because, like i just said, i hardly see him. similar to your story, i'm weirdly attracted to him. he's all i think about. i find that weird because all the other guys i've liked, i talk to ALL the time. it's weird.. haha

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      14 years ago

      That's interesting. Your situation is different though, you've hung out with him recently and you like him, there's nothing that's normal.
      With me though I haven't really seen or talked to this chick in like forever and I'm still hung up on her.

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