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I was molested at a young age by older brother. forced to do sexual acts and used sexually at age 4 or 5 years old ever since I have been sexually attracted to guys and not women????
It's normal to develop homosexual feelings after being abused by a member of the same gender. You were harmed. Seek a counselor who can help you, and don't just give in to the gay thing: you are created for so much more.
What do you mean don't give into the gay thing? Being gay isn't bad. I don't bother anyone I'm pretty nice. If your gay your gay if your not your not. People are people. Don't judge them based on that. I base it on there personality. I and how they treat others.
The same exact thing happened to me but with my uncle and at the age of 7. i also am now sexually attracted to men. I also think it is wrong to falsely base our personalities on iur interests. My uncle still tries to touch me and seduce me and people just dont understand that even if being gay WAS a problem, sometimes it not our fault
THANKS, I AM NOT GAY, I PERSONALLY DO NOT THINK IT IS WRONG TO TO BE ATTRACTED TO THE OPPOSITE SEX, AFTERALL THERE ARE GOOD LOOKING WOMEN AND GOODLOOKING MEN, GOD MADE BEAUTIFUL BODIES FOR MEN AND WOMEN. THE TRUE GOD MADE ALL THINGS BEAUTIFUL; OUR EARTH, TREES, OCEANS, MOUNTAINS, THE BIRDS AND ALL ANIMALS, ALL GOD'S CREATION IS BEAUTIFUL. HE IS A PERFECT GOD, IT IS MAN WHO TURNED AGAINST GOD AND FOLLOWED EVIL, NAMELY THE DEVIL AND SATAN.
Being abused isn't normal but being gay is. It's sad how people get abused by their relatives. The ones they thought cared for them.
Yeah sorry, and I can relate. I was abused by my stepfather and went through a lot of shit before I got married to a woman, but I still have gay tendencies.
thanks so much man, I am not alone, it is a shame how Satan works on us, using evil older men to mold us into the wrong direction in a sexual way, but now as adults we can identify the problem and try to go into the right direction, but it is not easy, with God's help we can do right, man for women, and women for men, that's how God created us. People like your stepdad will substain the punishment from the almighty in the end
Most people are born gay but some are made gay this way I believe. Either way I'm sorry you were abused.
Despite the fact that many people believe that a person is "born gay" the truth is less straightforward: "Gay" is a social construct. For example it would be nonsense to say there were gay Romans, but accurate to acknowledge that there were male Romans who had sex with other male Romans though the social context was different. Like most patterns of human behaviour, same sex attraction comes about because of a mixture of nature and nurture and is in any case normal for all mammals, of which we are a species. Homo sapiens is a naked ape, closely related to chimpanzees.
The fact that same sex attraction/sexual activity is an issue for some members of our society is what is curious for me. It clearly has a relationship with religious doctrine, most of which is questionable.
Sexual abuse is another issue and can cause attitudinal and behavioural anomalies. In your case your homosexuality could be a result or have been influenced by your experience but is unlikely to change. What is your problem with that? You do not give your brother's age, so was it what would normally be called abuse or simply play?
So you a question you never fucked a woman before you only suck guys fuc men so being molested made you gay
buzzybi I AM NOT GAY, I HAVE BEEN MARRIED TO A WOMAN AND HAVE A SON,DOES THAT ANSWER YOUR QUESTION IN PART??? I WAS SEXUALLY MOLESTED WHEN VERY YOUNG. MY QUESTION "DOES THAT WHAT HAPPENED BEING AND HAVING SEX (FORCED) WITH THE SAME SEX, CAUSE ME TO BE SEXUALLY (ATTRACTED)
TO THE SAME SEX???
If gay people chose to be gay why don't they all ' come out'., why do some kill themselves because they can't come to terms with being gay
Being abused is not normal and you should report it even if it's family members. Being gay is normal. The reason why I say being gay is normal because you are born gay and don't become gay.