Is it normal to be attracted to people who give you a hard time?

I noticed I like a guy who is not obsessed with me but rather has his own life and is not afraid to say NO. People who text me all the time and always ask to hang out kinda turns me of... Is it the same to you or it's not normal?

Is It Normal?
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  • You're entirely normal. Needy men are a turn-off to most women. This often leads men to pretend they're not interested when they actually are.

    The other side-effect is that when I really am disinterested in a woman, she becomes absolutely fascinated by me. If I was willing to play the game, everything would work out, but I hate playing games with people.

    To be honest, I think it's in most women's nature to dislike men who are too obviously interested in them. Doesn't make sense, but such is life!

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    • I know! A man who was needy can become very attractive when starts to act a bit distant. Probably because I love challanges :)

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  • I understand a lot! My first love was like this.

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  • Bitches be confusing, they say they want a dude who love them all the time and always want to be with them and all that other shit then they come out saying they want a nigga who be like not wanting to even acknowledge them, what the fuck you people want?

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  • so someone who's ignoring you is "giving you a hard time"?

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  • You want a catch. You want to chase not be chased. That or your just masochistic and the rejection turns you on.

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  • Someone gives me a hard time I have two responses: walk away, and punch them (I think this but don't act). Why would I want someone who doesn't want to pamper me to death treating me like a king?

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  • Girls get turned off by people who show to much interest in a needy way because it seems weak.
    Girls get turned on by men who have a more masculine, mysterious feel, because they expect the sex to be rough. ;D

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  • O.o

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  • Yeah you are right!!! Totally normal

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