Is it normal to be attracted to only white women?

I am attracted to only white women. But here is the strangest part - I am not white myself.

I used to be attracted to women of my own race and other races. But slowly as time progresses I find myself more attracted to white women than women of other races. At first I didn't even notice but I realized that all the pornographic material I had, all of them were exclusively of white women. So I started thinking about my dating life and realized that previously although I didn't care about their race, now subconsciously I was trying to date more white women than others. Sometimes I even rejected advances of other women. I used to tell myself something like "right now I am too busy to date" etc. But when I consciously thought about it, I realized had it been a white woman, I might have said "yes".

Then I thought it was just a phase and so I tried to consciously date non-white women. But it failed miserably. I just wasn't happy with my sex life. After three break ups I don't know what to do. I tried to be attracted to them. But when I was with them I had problems in bed. Like at times I couldn't get an erection. I have never had this problem with a white woman. And I could not reach climax a single time until I imagined having sex with a white woman. I had to imagine sex scenes from porn to help me reach orgasm.

I did find the women I dated beautiful though. But there was no sexual attraction. It's like I can look at Chris Evans and see that he is a handsome man. But I don't get sexually attracted to him because I am a straight man. Likewise, I can see women of other races are beautiful. But there is no sexual chemistry.

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Based on 67 votes (42 yes)
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  • juancpgo

    I think it’s normal, it’s just a sexual preference.

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  • jollycholly

    I have a very good friend who is black. We both grew up in a "white neighborhood". I am white and so are most of his other friends. His wife is white. See where I'm going here dude? My friend relates to white women because those were the ones he was conditioned to relate to growing up. He's had a few black girl friends in the past, but he chose a white female for his life partner because that's who he relates to best. By the way it was he who told me this. This is not a judgement call on my part. And he has been my friend since the 4th grade. So I'm happy that he found such a wonderful woman to share his life with. I really couldn't care less what color she was. So you are NORMAL dude. Don't sweat it. Anybody else don't like it, then fuck them. Know what I mean Jelly Bean?

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    • Thanks! It feels good to know that I am not alone.

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      • jollycholly

        So cool. And my friend tells me that he doesn't even see her as being white. He just loves her as any man would love a woman. Do you feel that? Yes? Then why even think about what others may think. Ciao. :-D

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  • RamenNoodleMaster#2

    Its not a good thing, its not good to limit yourself nothing wrong with only being into white women but limiting yourself completely is not a great thing in the long run refinement breeds problems openess will make life much easier. Enjoy your marshmallow journey.

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  • pixiecutlover

    Seems normal to me, I don't see anything that unusual about it.

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