Is it normal to be attracted to my boyfriend's friend?

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I've been with my boyfriend for two years and I love him although i have found myself getting a little bored with our sex life lately. He has a friend who has always been a little sleazy in the past and has made suggestive comments to me. Recently, I have found myself a little curious and attracted to him. He has a bit of a 'bad boy' kind of vibe and he always openly talks about how good he is at sex to me. Is it normal to feel this kind of lust towards him? I would never act on this but feel pretty guilty for feeling this way. However, I did masturbate while i thought of the friend having sex with me.
Is this normal? Thanks

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  • bubsy
    6 years ago | pl

    Very normal because this is attraction 101. Because he's seemingly more masculine, because you don't know as much about him, because his attention is harder to obtain = you've got the tingles.

    Girls say they hate being insecure, but in a completely secure relationship, the girl is always the first to look to another branch to swing.

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  • EccentricM8
    6 years ago | pl

    Its normal based on your situation, but I wouldn't consider it 'okay' per se. Talk to your bf about spicing things up. Its okay to fantasize, but just put yourself in his shoes and see if you'd like it for him to think about being with someone close to you.

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  • Drphillis
    6 years ago | pl

    My Dear
    you must be careful what you lust after, sometimes it can ruin a relationship!

    Boys will be boys and believe me they are very loyal toward each other, his friend will gladly have sex with you and then turn around and tell him that you are a slut!

    He is probably envious of the attention that you are getting from his friend as they probably always used to hang out together, now his time is limited.

    If you know longer value your relationship with your fella...sleep with his mate, you might enjoy it, you might feel terribly let down by his lack of performance, but one thing is clear, you will feel guilty afterwards!

    Rather speak to your boyfriend and tell him to be more adventurous in bed, I am sure he will oblige you.

    Remember boys are not mind readers and they know very little about a woman's anatomy until they are at least 30 years of age!

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  • sandnigga
    6 years ago | pl

    Is your relationship really focused that much on sex with your boyfriend?

    I mean attraction to the opposite sex is natural, but did you really have to masturbate to a different guy?

    Once I try to be with a girl I want, im dropping all other sexual people, because im not with anyone right now

    I plan to be 100% loyal to her.

    A relationship should be about social, caring and stuff, happiness. Attraction is natural. But how loyal are you to your boyfriend?

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