I'm kinda like that, usually describe myself as bi, for lack of a better term. But it's really more like I'm sexually attracted to guys/girls on like an 80%/20% split, so mostly heterosexual but a little lesbian too. But every other way (emotionally, aesthetically, etc.) it's like a 90%/10% split favoring females (so mostly "homoemotional", to coin a word, though I can fall for a guy emotionally, but not quite as easily as I can fall for a girl sexually, and much less easily than I can fall for a girl emotionally). So if I had to choose one sex to have sex with for the rest of my life, I'd choose male, but if I had to choose one sex to live with and have as a potential life partner, I'd choose female. Makes it hella difficult trying to decide whether I should date guys or girls or both or neither, since I want something (different somethings) from both sexes but am not sure I'll ever find my "total package" in one person of either sex. I kinda want a husband and a wife both.
I know I want kids, and a wife. but no matter how much I put it, its hard not to have an attraction towards men. Blast. If i were to say on emotional level its females 80% and men 20%, if i were to say sextual it would be 70%fem and 30% male... however. if i were to say attraction, it would be flip opopsite. 80%men 20%femmales. So thats where im confused. I can never really see myself dating a guy, but when it comes to anything physical its hard to say, but its hands down females when its face to face. I'm past the feeling of it being wrong, but still in the circle of where should i turn.
When you say with attraction it's 80% male and 20% female, what do you mean by "attraction"? Because you said you favored females both sexually and emotionally, so in what way do you favor males?
it makes sense what you say because ifyou have a visual attraction to men then that means you desire to see them visually. so your body is responding to women but your mind is thinking of a man.
IIN to be attracted to guys, but not to fancy sextual relations?
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I'm kinda like that, usually describe myself as bi, for lack of a better term. But it's really more like I'm sexually attracted to guys/girls on like an 80%/20% split, so mostly heterosexual but a little lesbian too. But every other way (emotionally, aesthetically, etc.) it's like a 90%/10% split favoring females (so mostly "homoemotional", to coin a word, though I can fall for a guy emotionally, but not quite as easily as I can fall for a girl sexually, and much less easily than I can fall for a girl emotionally). So if I had to choose one sex to have sex with for the rest of my life, I'd choose male, but if I had to choose one sex to live with and have as a potential life partner, I'd choose female. Makes it hella difficult trying to decide whether I should date guys or girls or both or neither, since I want something (different somethings) from both sexes but am not sure I'll ever find my "total package" in one person of either sex. I kinda want a husband and a wife both.
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I know I want kids, and a wife. but no matter how much I put it, its hard not to have an attraction towards men. Blast. If i were to say on emotional level its females 80% and men 20%, if i were to say sextual it would be 70%fem and 30% male... however. if i were to say attraction, it would be flip opopsite. 80%men 20%femmales. So thats where im confused. I can never really see myself dating a guy, but when it comes to anything physical its hard to say, but its hands down females when its face to face. I'm past the feeling of it being wrong, but still in the circle of where should i turn.
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When you say with attraction it's 80% male and 20% female, what do you mean by "attraction"? Because you said you favored females both sexually and emotionally, so in what way do you favor males?
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Umm visually? i think.
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it makes sense what you say because ifyou have a visual attraction to men then that means you desire to see them visually. so your body is responding to women but your mind is thinking of a man.