Is it normal to be attracted to black men?

i'm a 23 yr old white woman who was born and raised in the deep south and i am currently dating a black man (my family doesn't know yet). whenever i bring up the topic of interracial dating they all say how disgusting and abnormal it is to be attracted to black people. i can only imagine how upset they would be if they found out about my boyfriend

sometimes i can't help but feel like I'M the bad person here. do you think it's wrong?

Is It Normal?
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  • It's normal if you are genuinely attracted to black men. If you're into black guys just because it would freak out your folks or to be rebellious then I would say it's not uncommon, but not normal and healthy either.

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  • You have a preference and there's nothing wrong with it. Keep dating the guy you like. You're not a bad person. The people that think you're wrong are the ones that are bad.

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  • What if you poisoned your parents? Then you wouldn't have to worry about their opinion anymore.

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  • What kind of question is that? why would it not be normal. Date whoever, it shouldn't matter.

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  • My wife loves black guys and loves having them use her for sex. She says they are far more experienced at pleasing a woman and she loves the excitement of black on white. We have a very open marriage so she regularly see's a number of black guys who fullfill all her sexual desires. She will come home with a pussy full of black seed and have me add my load of cum to her and then have me eat her out. Go for it and enjoy all the sexual pleasures it will bring

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    • You should let them bang you too.

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  • No black people are good and also they have bigger dicks sooo.

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    • That's not true in my experience. I have been with 4 black guys and only one of them had a big dick, and yeah it was amazing, omg was it amazing. Of the other 3 however 2 were smallish and 1 was probably the smallest I've ever had. He was really self conscious about it but he was a cutie and I think still a virgin so I let him just do whatever he wanted to me. I did have to use my hand to get off, while he took me from behind but I think by the end he had gained some confidence.

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    • Not always true. It varies from person to person like in most ethnicities. As for liking black people? Sounds like your family didlikes them or they are close minded

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  • *Clinks spoon on teacup*

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  • You might end up a single mother.

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  • Of course it's normal to be attracted to black male, what it's a little not normal is to be attracted to black female. Their dicks are tremoundous

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  • You like who you like...and no, there's NOTHING wrong that!(Yesh, i am BLACK)

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  • You aren't wrong at all. Don't let your family's odd opinions bother you.

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  • You are definitely not a horrible person at all for loving a black man. You can love whomever you want even if they're of a different ethnicity. I understand why you would feel bad though because your family's opinion means something to you. And not having their support makes it really hard to love yourself. If your family loves you and wants you to be happy, they'll accept him for who he is even if they aren't particularly happy about your choice. Basically what I'm saying is don't take it to heart and keep doing you ♥️

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