I think I am one of those man and I know what you mean. The problem with us is that we have this "God complex" it makes you think everything is gonna work out just fine because "hey, it's you after all" and that you don't need anything or anyone and never effected by anything (ie breaking up, someone dying etc.)
Not being effected also means not falling in love. Thankfully (partly sad though) none of these are true.
If you lower the defences you'll find the weakest man you've ever seen. I don't mean spineless, but it's easy to hurt us after a while. It's not like love-hurt though. You lose yourself, you lose your faith in yourself and all of that world that you've created collapses. Sort of like, killing someone actually, mentally.
Either keep flattering him and he won't ever be able to truly leave you. He may be disrespectful at times and he may come and go but he just can't leave.
Or you can play hard to get and challange his intelligence (or whatever his forte is) if you turn out to be average he'll be impressed because he believes average is much lower(on almost every subject).
This sounds more like narcissim but oh well. Just make sure he is what you say he is, don't be an easy catch and don't try to help him on anything, If you can do it behind the scenes though just don't let him find out.
Is it normal to be attracted to arrogant men?
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I think I am one of those man and I know what you mean. The problem with us is that we have this "God complex" it makes you think everything is gonna work out just fine because "hey, it's you after all" and that you don't need anything or anyone and never effected by anything (ie breaking up, someone dying etc.)
Not being effected also means not falling in love. Thankfully (partly sad though) none of these are true.
If you lower the defences you'll find the weakest man you've ever seen. I don't mean spineless, but it's easy to hurt us after a while. It's not like love-hurt though. You lose yourself, you lose your faith in yourself and all of that world that you've created collapses. Sort of like, killing someone actually, mentally.
Either keep flattering him and he won't ever be able to truly leave you. He may be disrespectful at times and he may come and go but he just can't leave.
Or you can play hard to get and challange his intelligence (or whatever his forte is) if you turn out to be average he'll be impressed because he believes average is much lower(on almost every subject).
This sounds more like narcissim but oh well. Just make sure he is what you say he is, don't be an easy catch and don't try to help him on anything, If you can do it behind the scenes though just don't let him find out.