Is it normal to be attraced(emotionally) to masochistic people.

Also the thing is that she's not just sexual masochistic she's morally masochistic... Which means it rules every aspect of her life conscious and unconscious shes she's like the textbook definition of masochism. And it's really selfdestructive. She wants to be dominated she craves it, and if she doesn't get she inwardly punishes herself through self mutilation(cutting) or really self destructive thought patterns and action and that disables me form being able love her because she pushes all good relationships she has in life away and replaces them with bad and destructive ones.( I've put a lot of thought into this lots and lots of thought.)