You fear escalation. Basically you're afraid that by dominating her you won't want to stop and you'll end up abusing her. Nobody wants to be a megalomaniac. If anything, I suggest that you each take turns dominating each other, that way control shifts and you can keep each other in check. Or you could just explain to her that dominating someone isn't your thing.
Is it normal to be attraced(emotionally) to masochistic people.
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You fear escalation. Basically you're afraid that by dominating her you won't want to stop and you'll end up abusing her. Nobody wants to be a megalomaniac. If anything, I suggest that you each take turns dominating each other, that way control shifts and you can keep each other in check. Or you could just explain to her that dominating someone isn't your thing.