Funny, I thought I was over the parts of being a teen I missed out on, and really ignored the value of it all. I didn't realize I missed out on anything, I just thought of getting out of poverty, getting my career started and standing on my own two feet. After that, I could make friends, meet a girl, connect, be human!
Like IEatZombies said though, I need to decide if this feels okay, and the consequences of pursuit. Having had time to think since I first posted,I've realized that I don't want to project my inadequacy onto this girl, pursuing her when really I just miss having time for my passions just won't end well.
Peanuts is a retard but I agree with him on one thing, what happens if I do pursue this and its just a physical thing, what ever I feel would likely fizzle as I can't even say where it comes from(don't have experience with relationships but I do know how physical attractions wear off).
I don't want to "break up with her" for lack of better wording, I just think this feeling will fade if I give it time and concentrate on what I should. We're likely just gonna be friends.
P. S the woman you dated sounds lovely, I can't help but wonder why the "dated" part you mentioned is in the past tense.
Is it normal to be attached to a teenaged girl when you're twenty
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Funny, I thought I was over the parts of being a teen I missed out on, and really ignored the value of it all. I didn't realize I missed out on anything, I just thought of getting out of poverty, getting my career started and standing on my own two feet. After that, I could make friends, meet a girl, connect, be human!
Like IEatZombies said though, I need to decide if this feels okay, and the consequences of pursuit. Having had time to think since I first posted,I've realized that I don't want to project my inadequacy onto this girl, pursuing her when really I just miss having time for my passions just won't end well.
Peanuts is a retard but I agree with him on one thing, what happens if I do pursue this and its just a physical thing, what ever I feel would likely fizzle as I can't even say where it comes from(don't have experience with relationships but I do know how physical attractions wear off).
I don't want to "break up with her" for lack of better wording, I just think this feeling will fade if I give it time and concentrate on what I should. We're likely just gonna be friends.
P. S the woman you dated sounds lovely, I can't help but wonder why the "dated" part you mentioned is in the past tense.