You're making up for lost time. Fairly normal. Ride it out until you do meet someone of your age, if you even want that. A few years difference is nothing. You've adapted to your surroundings and reacting to what's there. Don't stress out about it. Not like you're 20 and she's 13.
Besides, women are more mature than ever anymore. I've dated a 24 year old who looks about 16, is very pretty, great smile, petite, and not overly showy with makeup, is just a natural beauty, and to be honest..She's more with it and mature than many women my age. I don't care about the age difference. She speaks on a better level, that smile just has me putty in her hands, and she presents like she's 10 years older than she is.
Funny, I thought I was over the parts of being a teen I missed out on, and really ignored the value of it all. I didn't realize I missed out on anything, I just thought of getting out of poverty, getting my career started and standing on my own two feet. After that, I could make friends, meet a girl, connect, be human!
Like IEatZombies said though, I need to decide if this feels okay, and the consequences of pursuit. Having had time to think since I first posted,I've realized that I don't want to project my inadequacy onto this girl, pursuing her when really I just miss having time for my passions just won't end well.
Peanuts is a retard but I agree with him on one thing, what happens if I do pursue this and its just a physical thing, what ever I feel would likely fizzle as I can't even say where it comes from(don't have experience with relationships but I do know how physical attractions wear off).
I don't want to "break up with her" for lack of better wording, I just think this feeling will fade if I give it time and concentrate on what I should. We're likely just gonna be friends.
P. S the woman you dated sounds lovely, I can't help but wonder why the "dated" part you mentioned is in the past tense.
Is it normal to be attached to a teenaged girl when you're twenty
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You're making up for lost time. Fairly normal. Ride it out until you do meet someone of your age, if you even want that. A few years difference is nothing. You've adapted to your surroundings and reacting to what's there. Don't stress out about it. Not like you're 20 and she's 13.
Besides, women are more mature than ever anymore. I've dated a 24 year old who looks about 16, is very pretty, great smile, petite, and not overly showy with makeup, is just a natural beauty, and to be honest..She's more with it and mature than many women my age. I don't care about the age difference. She speaks on a better level, that smile just has me putty in her hands, and she presents like she's 10 years older than she is.
Age is just a number.
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Funny, I thought I was over the parts of being a teen I missed out on, and really ignored the value of it all. I didn't realize I missed out on anything, I just thought of getting out of poverty, getting my career started and standing on my own two feet. After that, I could make friends, meet a girl, connect, be human!
Like IEatZombies said though, I need to decide if this feels okay, and the consequences of pursuit. Having had time to think since I first posted,I've realized that I don't want to project my inadequacy onto this girl, pursuing her when really I just miss having time for my passions just won't end well.
Peanuts is a retard but I agree with him on one thing, what happens if I do pursue this and its just a physical thing, what ever I feel would likely fizzle as I can't even say where it comes from(don't have experience with relationships but I do know how physical attractions wear off).
I don't want to "break up with her" for lack of better wording, I just think this feeling will fade if I give it time and concentrate on what I should. We're likely just gonna be friends.
P. S the woman you dated sounds lovely, I can't help but wonder why the "dated" part you mentioned is in the past tense.