It is not normal to be that upset with your son about these things. Your son sounds to be very normal, and I am not surprised that your husband and son feel upset with you.
When you said "You should SEE the way the dog chain was put away and the way he does laundry and is not the way I do it Everything should be done my way because it is the only way.My son asked how to put it away which made me madder because he should know how I want it"
You are firstly saying that the dog chain is extremely important when it is not. Secondly, you are saying your way is the only acceptable way, which is clearly only your opinion, and you need to relax and consider what is actually important - your relationships. Thirdly, you have said that he cannot ask how to do it better/correctly - you have given him NO WAY to improve or please you, when you should be happy that he is listening and trying to correct himself for you.
Frankly, you should are lucky to still have these people in your life and you need to relax before you are alone with an empty dog chain to pack away.
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It is not normal to be that upset with your son about these things. Your son sounds to be very normal, and I am not surprised that your husband and son feel upset with you.
When you said "You should SEE the way the dog chain was put away and the way he does laundry and is not the way I do it Everything should be done my way because it is the only way.My son asked how to put it away which made me madder because he should know how I want it"
You are firstly saying that the dog chain is extremely important when it is not. Secondly, you are saying your way is the only acceptable way, which is clearly only your opinion, and you need to relax and consider what is actually important - your relationships. Thirdly, you have said that he cannot ask how to do it better/correctly - you have given him NO WAY to improve or please you, when you should be happy that he is listening and trying to correct himself for you.
Frankly, you should are lucky to still have these people in your life and you need to relax before you are alone with an empty dog chain to pack away.