You don't have to constantly say things like "I'm not letting your comments hurt me." I'm not trying to hurt you.
Now this is just a speculation of mine, may or may not be true: You just mentioned you have a developmental disorder. And you followed up right after by stating that you're hanging out with someone next week. A person who is confident in their social standing would not be so defensive about it. Which would mean you don't have a lot of confidence in yourself. Now, some people at school might've noticed your developmental disorder and cast you aside because of it. It's just the way it is, people are dicks. The girls that are nice to you might just be doing it because they don't want to be mean and hurt you. And this so-called "close-minded girl" probably feels uncomfortable around you and took the intiative to tell you that her and her friends don't know you and feel a little uncomfortable about you talking to them. People are just assholes, dump them and meet some that care.
I can see you're trying to be more understanding and I appreciate it. But, these people I know on the net actually don't know I have a disorder. People I went to school with know because I had to have an aide with me in class from 4th grade on. I'm actually highly advanced and didn't need an aide, but it wasn't up to me. The school staff often underestimated me. :/ Not everybody I went to school with were the most compassionate people. Although Blakely (the weird girl) isn't nice to everyone, her friends are. Madeline is pretty popular with people online and gets a ton of messages in her Formspring box, and she always replies nicely. Same with Jillian, she thanks everybody for complimenting her music. And I'm not being defensive, just trying to prove some points. Hope you understand now. :)
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You don't have to constantly say things like "I'm not letting your comments hurt me." I'm not trying to hurt you.
Now this is just a speculation of mine, may or may not be true: You just mentioned you have a developmental disorder. And you followed up right after by stating that you're hanging out with someone next week. A person who is confident in their social standing would not be so defensive about it. Which would mean you don't have a lot of confidence in yourself. Now, some people at school might've noticed your developmental disorder and cast you aside because of it. It's just the way it is, people are dicks. The girls that are nice to you might just be doing it because they don't want to be mean and hurt you. And this so-called "close-minded girl" probably feels uncomfortable around you and took the intiative to tell you that her and her friends don't know you and feel a little uncomfortable about you talking to them. People are just assholes, dump them and meet some that care.
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I can see you're trying to be more understanding and I appreciate it. But, these people I know on the net actually don't know I have a disorder. People I went to school with know because I had to have an aide with me in class from 4th grade on. I'm actually highly advanced and didn't need an aide, but it wasn't up to me. The school staff often underestimated me. :/ Not everybody I went to school with were the most compassionate people. Although Blakely (the weird girl) isn't nice to everyone, her friends are. Madeline is pretty popular with people online and gets a ton of messages in her Formspring box, and she always replies nicely. Same with Jillian, she thanks everybody for complimenting her music. And I'm not being defensive, just trying to prove some points. Hope you understand now. :)
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Ohhh, I misunderstood you. You know what, I think you're right. This Blakely chick is probably just an asshole. Don't deal with her.
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Thank you, yeah obviously you misunderstood before, but I'm glad you see my point now. :)