She doesn't need any more friends, so what? You've already said that she isn't obliged to hang out with you. Tbh, I agree with her, it's good that there are still some people who can tell the difference between real-life and online "friends". It seems to me that you are just bitter cause she friend-rejected you :)
You hate what you don't understand. You don't understand why some people don't want to hang out with you, so you hate it. Trying to force her to hang out with you will make it worse. Just leave her alone. You are being as bitchy as her, if not more so.
Thanks for the comment, but I think you misunderstood some things. You don't have to consider YOUR interweb friends real friends, but nothing you say can change my way of thinking.
And, she lives in another state, so I wasn't asking her to hang out, I was just being nice by messaging her just to say hi, since I talk to her friends but had yet to talk to her. Then she asked if she knew me, and I said not really but we have mutual friends. Then she talked long enough to tell me what she was doing and then signed off without saying goodbye or anything. Then when I called her out on it she was even more of a bitch. See what I mean? Thank you for your time. :)
Some people just don't like to talk online. Doesn't make them bitches. Calling them out on it does.
If nothing anyone can say will change your way of thinking, then you are only here for self-validation, which isn't the point at all. I was only describing to you how she feels, so that you can at least recognise that she thinks differently; you don't need to agree, only understand that for some people, having mutual friends isn't enough to base a friendship on.
Yes, I understand the last part of what you said, but I thought she'd be nice since her friends all are, but I was wrong. In fact that shows that she doesn't belong in her group of friends. I just don't understand why anyone would shun someone who's doing nothing but trying to be nice.
And, your comments don't upset me at all, since you don't know me. I'm just stating my point.
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She doesn't need any more friends, so what? You've already said that she isn't obliged to hang out with you. Tbh, I agree with her, it's good that there are still some people who can tell the difference between real-life and online "friends". It seems to me that you are just bitter cause she friend-rejected you :)
You hate what you don't understand. You don't understand why some people don't want to hang out with you, so you hate it. Trying to force her to hang out with you will make it worse. Just leave her alone. You are being as bitchy as her, if not more so.
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Thanks for the comment, but I think you misunderstood some things. You don't have to consider YOUR interweb friends real friends, but nothing you say can change my way of thinking.
And, she lives in another state, so I wasn't asking her to hang out, I was just being nice by messaging her just to say hi, since I talk to her friends but had yet to talk to her. Then she asked if she knew me, and I said not really but we have mutual friends. Then she talked long enough to tell me what she was doing and then signed off without saying goodbye or anything. Then when I called her out on it she was even more of a bitch. See what I mean? Thank you for your time. :)
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Some people just don't like to talk online. Doesn't make them bitches. Calling them out on it does.
If nothing anyone can say will change your way of thinking, then you are only here for self-validation, which isn't the point at all. I was only describing to you how she feels, so that you can at least recognise that she thinks differently; you don't need to agree, only understand that for some people, having mutual friends isn't enough to base a friendship on.
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Yes, I understand the last part of what you said, but I thought she'd be nice since her friends all are, but I was wrong. In fact that shows that she doesn't belong in her group of friends. I just don't understand why anyone would shun someone who's doing nothing but trying to be nice.
And, your comments don't upset me at all, since you don't know me. I'm just stating my point.