it's totally normal. we all get frustrated by things that we know we shouldn't be. it seems like your anger is not very intense.. i would call it more irritation. Sometimes you feel a little irritated even though you know you shouldn't
and you know you shouldn't because you know your grandma just made a mistake, and she'd be upset if she realized her mistake. You know her heart and her intentions.
It's okay to feel irritation at little things. Just know the difference between that and actually blaming someone for wronging you.
For example I get frustrated all the time when say I'm in a hurry to check out at Walgreens and someone gets in line just before me and then takes a long time for whatever reason--but i know it's not fair to blame that person, it was just bad luck of ending up behind them. They did nothing wrong. I think that's what you're experiencing--
you're just a tad frustrated that your grandma went through the effort of asking and then got it mixed up, but you're not actually mad AT her.
Is it normal to be angry at this?
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it's totally normal. we all get frustrated by things that we know we shouldn't be. it seems like your anger is not very intense.. i would call it more irritation. Sometimes you feel a little irritated even though you know you shouldn't
and you know you shouldn't because you know your grandma just made a mistake, and she'd be upset if she realized her mistake. You know her heart and her intentions.
It's okay to feel irritation at little things. Just know the difference between that and actually blaming someone for wronging you.
For example I get frustrated all the time when say I'm in a hurry to check out at Walgreens and someone gets in line just before me and then takes a long time for whatever reason--but i know it's not fair to blame that person, it was just bad luck of ending up behind them. They did nothing wrong. I think that's what you're experiencing--
you're just a tad frustrated that your grandma went through the effort of asking and then got it mixed up, but you're not actually mad AT her.