Is it normal to be angered when people mess up my name?

My name is Gabrielle. Which, is obviously a girls' name. People mess it up all the time and call me "Gabriel". Some even have the nerve to ask me "Is that even a girl's name?"

and even worse, when I'm chatting online, people have asked me (after I've stated my name) "Are you a guy or girl?"

Is it normal that this angers me? Is it that hard to realize that this is a girls' name?

Is It Normal?
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  • I'm called Olivia and I once had a teacher who insisted on calling me Oliver...I wanted to punch her.

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  • Normal. My name is a star constallation (I kid you not) and people always pronounce it wrong. I mean really? It's the fucking star sign, there is no variation.

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  • the same thing happens with my friend all the time! like, do people not know how to pronounce things anymore or what?!

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  • I think it is pretty obvious Gabrielle is a female name just by looking at the ending and it isn't an uncommon name, so either people are just being deliberately stupid or really are dumb

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  • That's so dumb. I'm willing to bet they're just doing it to mess with you. How can someone legitimately not know if Gabrielle is a male or female name?

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  • I have a short, simple name, but I'd be very annoyed if I was in your position. The -le at the end of your name makes it entirely obvious it's a female name. Even if I'd never heard the name before (I have, because I work with a Gabrielle), I'd assume female.

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  • Normal. When I meet people, noone ever remembers my name like it's so fucking difficult. I also have a silent 'h' in my name my old math teacher use to pronounce for a whole two years even though I corrected him all the time -_-

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  • Have they never even heard of Estelle or Emmanuelle? I used to work with a guy whose last name was Gabriel and ppl always thought it was his first name.

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  • I'm the same way. At work, people will email me and spell my name wrong, even though my name is part of my email address. They always throw in extra letters when addressing me in the email. Fuckers.

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    • omg that pisses me off so much!! same has happened to me. I know my name is weird but even after i corrected them. SOOO....i decided to do it back to them. They got so butthurt and it also started a bit of office drama. But i really don't care because it seemed like they were being disrespectful for no reason at all.

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  • If I haven't read your story, I wouldn't know is a girls name... So most people don't know that

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