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I'm a guy who doesn't want to have sex, I mean I have a lack of sexual attraction that means I don't want sex like others do, but I have a foot fetish. I get extremely horny when I see feet. all what I'm saying is that I don't want to have sex. I just want to lick feet. that's it.
You're not asexual. Most of the people using that word really seem to have no idea on what it actually means.
Yeah, they almost always mean celibate, but lots of people seem to think that word only applies to priests
I don't understand why people find it so hard to use the correct term rather than creating confusion about what they mean
I don't know if they simply got confused with the words or not. If so then it's an honest mistake but I've noticed all too well that people that claim to be asexual tend to do it to seem special and different. It's annoying. Lol.
Oh, that's interesting, I haven't come across that, but then in my particular tribe I don't think too many are asexual, although some may be involuntarily celibate at different times.
I guess celibate is another term often misused, maybe even by me, when often it just means without a sexual partner at the moment or even permanently, but still having sex with oneself.
Have you tried asking the annoying people who say they're asexual, "A sexual what?" or perhaps more tactfully, what do you mean by that? You're never interested in sex?
Ewww I hope the feet are clean.
im not sure I ever heard of someone who identifies as asexual that also has a fetish.
But fetishes are normal to have. Licking feet sounds gross to me...but if you want to go for it
In order to get to lick feet, you have to be considerate enough to meet the other person's sexual and emotional needs too. You need to concentrate on their needs. If your focus in a relationship is just on their feet, they will resent it. And they will say, "All you care about is my feet."
I have a few questions. Are they female or male feet or is it either sex? Does the fantasy give you a boner? Have you tried it in real life?
It is possible to be asexual and have fetishes. I'm a Grey Asexual and I have a ton kinky fetishes. ;)
If the fetishes are connected to sexual arousal, which is what makes them fetishes, then you're not asexual.
If you're not actually having sex, you're celibate: look up the words in a dictionary
I'm currently indentifying as Pansexual and yes, I'm celibate. Thanks for making me re-question my sexuality. :)
I've just checked the dictionary definition of celibacy and I was wrong: it means abstinence from marriage, doesn't say anything about abstinence from sex. Sorry about that!
What's more, abstinence means refraining from something, implying choice.
So what IS the term for someone like me or you .... sexual but not having sex with anyone else at the moment? I have lots of sex with myself and with my lovely phone lover, but none with anyone "in the flesh" as it were at the moment.
Ha Ha I just wondered why I'm putting any energy into this when I hate labels anyway! I'm sexual, that's all that matters in this context.
Oh... you're like an old dog... "I don't want to bark today, I just want to lick my balls"