Is it normal to be an addict

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My ex-girl friend loves anal sex and make me an addict in this kind of intercourse. We finished six years of relationship and I meet another girl.I tried to do vaginal sex but I lost erection in few minutes. When I pass to her anal entry my penis get total erection. But the new girl doesn´t like anal sex and feel very uncomfortable with that kind of sex. I don´t want to annoy her but I want to feel some pleasure. What I do? IIN?

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  • Gspyder
    9 years ago

    I think if I broke up with my anal-loving girlfriend I would be in your situation. You'll probably get used to vaginal sex again eventually, but if you just can't do without it in a relationship you should go on to find someone who shares your enthusiasm for if. It's not right to push her to do something she's not comfortable with

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  • disthing
    9 years ago

    I think anal sex is your paraphilia. Some people find it very difficult to maintain arousal without their paraphilia or fetish being indulged.

    Unfortunately, if she doesn't like anal there's not much you can do. If you can't adapt to the change in sex habits, you may have to find a different girl who loves anal as much as you do.

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  • Mr-Myrtos
    9 years ago

    Vaginal sex in normal
    Anal sex is normal
    Oral sex is normal.
    Non of it is fetish coz its all more than normal.
    What happens to us guys is to have periods of time we have more pleasure with one of the things.
    If there is a relationship with some complicity all this things run smoothly.
    In your shoes I would talk to her and explain in in a nice way. After she looses the fear or prejudice concerning to anal sex she will enjoy it for sure.
    If you have trouble getting horny is something you must work inside you as fast as possible. I'm sure it wont take longer.

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  • Shaul1950
    9 years ago

    It´s not paraphilia. It´s normal. Anal hole is tightier than vagina one. But If you go only on rear entry, you become an anal sex addict. The correct is practice the three kinds of sexes: vaginal, oral and anal. But if you reach pleasure only with the backside of a woman, go on an be happy. Both (you and your gf).

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  • xxlappelduvidexx
    8 years ago

    I think it's normal. But I also think you're going to eventually need to retrain yourself to have "traditional" sex again.
    I personally think anal sex is totally fine, for those who can have it.
    Some women are unable to have anal sex (for instance, I have Crohn's and can't have it) and if you can't stay hard for vaginal sex, you'll be in for some disappointment and failed relationships.
    Do a bit of research on "death grip syndrome" (meaning you need a lot of pressure friction to stay aroused) and it should offer advice.

    Or just become an anal pornstar :)

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