Is it normal to be afriad to do this with someone you know

I have hooked up with 3 guys they were all terrible hookups and they were all with strangers. I don't think I'm good at making out because I don't know what to do like with my tongue so I'm afraid to hook up with someone I know because I don't want people to know I'm not good at it. I also had a thing with a guy who was really hot and we really liked each other but I made sure it didn't go anywhere because I didn't want to have to kiss him and then have him find out I'm bad.

Is it normal to be afraid of people thinking you're a bad kisser?

What can I do to become a better kisser?

Do you have any tips?

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  • Find someone you like and can get to know and can have/develop feelings. I don't think making out with strangers is a good way to judge whether you are the world's hottest lover or just stink. You are missing the relationship that makes intimacy and tenderness possible.

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  • I was nervous before my first kiss as well but I overcame it. Practice makes perfect.
    Just do what feels right. Don't swallow their tongue and lick their face, but don't keep the little guy to yourself. Take it easy.

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  • Unless you're drawing blood or have bad breath, any time kissing is usually better than any time not kissing.

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  • Well, before you get with anyone else you should get tested. Just because you use protection, doesn't mean you're fully protected from STD's, and you wouldn't want to spread that to someone you know.

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    • As good an idea as this is, i think by "hooking up" they meant "just making out"

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  • With all your built up sexual craving just start with I random hug then put your lips to his let him control it just feel the sex in the room and rub his cock. Think nasty

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  • The first guy I ever made out with I really liked at the time and he was really hot. The initial kiss was a little awkward but as soon as we got into it it all just came sort of naturally. As long as you are both attracted to each other it will go smoothly. Don't worry so much and it will be fine.

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  • I remember the first women I made out with, we were both so nervous, worried that my parents would walk in through the front door and find us together. Although it wasn't until wheel of fortune came on the telly that myself and my nan started to feel more relaxed about the whole situation.

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  • I was so nervous about my first kiss... Despite being told I am a good kisser, I still freak out before a kiss... When you're kissing, try spelling your name out with your tongue... Although, in all honestly, passion and a good partner makes it work...

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  • Just talk to someone you know and get to know them well. Then if you two start dating don't be afraid to do any thing! Last girl I had her sister told us to kiss so when we did she made a big deal over it but me and my girl kissed over 30 times that day! And this is coming from a 12 year old

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  • If a guy likes you enough to kiss you then he will overlook any short comings you might have, and after all the fun part is in the practicing, and that makes you desirable for me!

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  • Practice you will never get good at something if you quit before starting.

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  • The best thing is not to care and just go for it, you will improve over time as everyone does.

    The truth is there aren't "bad" kissers, everyone kisses differently so it's more a matter of compatibility.

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  • Practice makes perfect. Who cares what people think? You are what you are, and the only you can get better is by getting your skills up

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  • You have had sex with three guys you didn't know but you haven't kissed the guys you liked?
    Oh wow :|

    Well, before having my first kiss i was so scared that the guy would notice i was bad. After my first kiss, i was like, uhum alright, it doesn't seem so difficult. But i took a while to have another kiss, and i was so damn scared that i wouldn't remember to kiss. i think you just have to be brave and kiss them. Plus i doubt they'll think you're bad. I have kissed a few buys and thought "uh they are bad kissers" but beh i forget about it after ... some minutes lol.
    YOu know, i dont think you have to think while kissing! it just comes naturally... if you're not scared :P

    I think i'm a good kisser now. to be honest, if you asked me how do you kiss? i wouldn't know how to reply. atm i dont remember what i do. i just do. uhum. that is weird i guess :/ i'm not sure i helped uhu....

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    • NO i did not have sex with people i just made out with them!

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      • Oh sorry :p I thought you meant "hooking up" as having sex. Oh well. When I was like 16 I used to kiss randomers too and I was scared to kiss this guy i liked (and he liked me too) because I thought I was bad at it, and afterall, i used to think it was alright cause it was a random guy that i wouldnt see again and he wouldn't even remember it because he was too drunk. so yeah i'd say just don't think of it and do it even if you think youre bad at it ;)
        so i was 16 and this guy i liked walked me home at night after a school party. we were alone and he mentioned something funny which kinda meant "we should kiss", and i just panicked thinking i wouldn't be good and changed topic. i regretted it for ages. Now I'm sure he wouldn't have really minded if i was a bad kisser, after all, he might be bad too, and hey ,if he kisses you it's becuase he likes you!! he won't mind! :P

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