Is it normal to be afraid to have a threesome

My wife and I have shared a mutual fantasy about adding another woman to the mix. We've incorporated certain scenarios during foreplay and it all seems very harmless. In the beginning, she expressed that this is something that she would never do in a million years but over time, her fantasies have gotten more and more specific. Recently, while in the moment she unraveled a specific plan which included soliciting on Craigslist. To make matters more convincing I've been seeing Craigslist adds on our history for mw4w, w4mw, mw4mw & w4w

Is It Normal?
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  • If you don't actually want a threesome you should tell your wife asap, although if the roleplay and foreplay is still okay let her know that too

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  • We've done it, but mfm, and it was very hot, but not something we'd do again. It's something you'll never know if you don't try it, but if you do it on Craigslist, be very careful, and meet in a public place first.

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  • Your completely right! My fear goes two fold. I'm afraid that I'll either like it too much and a few years down the road we're doing wild irreversible things. The second fear is that I might have created a monster. Bottom line is that I fear the unknown. I don't even really know my own stance on it. Kind of a simple yet complex issue for me. Anyone else been in this position? How did it pan out for you?

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