Is it normal to be afraid to come out,

I mean and im not akin

Take your time. I started out by telling just a few gay (lesbian bisexual transgender u get the point) friends at a time akin slowly working up to my parents. The fact is if your friends don't find u attractive now comming out wont change their opinion.

Someone will find you attractive. The key is not to try and rush it. Coming out is the first step, and if you don't, you'll never know :)

just don't casre what others think- im transgender and my mom hates me for it but i dont give a shit because she's lesbian and i never judged her- i supported her

let it shine, my freind

So what? You'll find someone, believe me. I did, in the most unexpected place.

A hobo will find you attractive

Trust me...someone will find you attractive.

I have no idea what it must be like to come out. All I'm pleased about is that it's becoming so mainstream that eventually no-one may ever have to be "in".

Gay puss