Well to be honest, asking a girl out is pretty tough, and even more so when the guy feels like it's his duty as a man to do it. The guys I like are usually shy, so I have to do all the moves first. I've developed a nuanced technique for it, too:
1. Get to know romantic interest. This is important. Make the person feel comfortable around you, and find out what the person likes and doesn't like.
2. Drop subtle hints that you appreciate the person. Like "you look beautiful today", or "I really like spending time with you". Gauge the person's reaction. If it's neutral or negative, back away for a little bit and keep spending time with the person.
3. Once the person reacts positively to hints, try more direct statements, like "I think I might like you more than just a friend" or "you're really special to me". The other person should reciprocate. (If not, go back a few steps, or just chill until the person gets used to your feelings)
4. Ask out. If everything else goes smoothly, this should work out.
5. Proceed with caution.
Is it normal to be afraid to ask girl out?
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Well to be honest, asking a girl out is pretty tough, and even more so when the guy feels like it's his duty as a man to do it. The guys I like are usually shy, so I have to do all the moves first. I've developed a nuanced technique for it, too:
1. Get to know romantic interest. This is important. Make the person feel comfortable around you, and find out what the person likes and doesn't like.
2. Drop subtle hints that you appreciate the person. Like "you look beautiful today", or "I really like spending time with you". Gauge the person's reaction. If it's neutral or negative, back away for a little bit and keep spending time with the person.
3. Once the person reacts positively to hints, try more direct statements, like "I think I might like you more than just a friend" or "you're really special to me". The other person should reciprocate. (If not, go back a few steps, or just chill until the person gets used to your feelings)
4. Ask out. If everything else goes smoothly, this should work out.
5. Proceed with caution.