Is it normal to be afraid of what he will think?

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I have been in love with my long distance boyfriend for over 3 years now. We have never met person to person, only on webcam. We live 2 states apart. But I'm afraid that when we meet he will not love me anymore because I won't be as "perfect" as be thinks I will be. I love him so much but I have dreams that say he wouldn't love me the same way when we see each other. What should I do to help with all the insecurities?

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  • PinkLagon87
    12 years ago | pl

    wow..u should meet this dude ....and see how it feels .. but i do think its weird that ur in love with a dude u never met before... :/ #FreakyIshYo

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  • emilydoll
    12 years ago | pl

    Just be confident and love yourself.

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  • pingu23
    12 years ago | pl

    You can't choose who you fall in love with. People have a way of connecting whether it be through a friend or through a social website. I fell in love with him. I can't take it back and I don't want to.

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  • dappled
    12 years ago | pl

    Men are different to women, but we're not completely different. He'll be as nervous as you are. He'll be so worried that the girl he loves actually loves him too. Meet him! It'll be okay. I promise.

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  • Treez
    12 years ago | pl

    I couldn't do that

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  • Kittenkat
    12 years ago | pl

    Theres nothing wrong.with having a boyfriend youve nevee met.if.you live a conciderable distance apart, I.met my boyfriend of 2 years.online. but in saying that its normal.to.be nervous.but if you love this person you.need to meet them as part.of a normal healthy relationship.

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  • Noonesperfect
    12 years ago | pl

    WTF

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  • istrawberry
    12 years ago | pl

    It's normal to feel like that. At first, you will feel HELLA nervous, but that's perfectly normal. Ya just need to meet and everything will be alot more comfortable for you too, because I've been in that situation before.

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