Thanks for the comment. I somewhat disagree; I have virtual friends who I've become tight with and I want to meet them when I can afford it. But one who doesn't have good friends in the virtual world doesn't really understand and that's forgivable.
Anyway, I do have quite a bit in common with this guy. He usually messages me more than once every day, it's not really bothersome but he asks the same things all the time and I don't want to bore him by answering the same every time. We haven't arranged to meet again, at least not yet. If he wants to it's cool, I'm kinda leaving it up to him.
I understand amazing online friends and i most certainly understand not being able to afford it. But i dont think you see all the sides to a person online, such as when they are angry and their behaviors that follow.
I think if you want to meet him, take charge and ask him. If you both want to make things work, he will try his best as you should.
As for boring him, i understand that. So maybe don't respond to all his messages. Keep him waiting and thinking about you. If that dosent suit you then dont do it.
Is it normal to be afraid of the next level?
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Thanks for the comment. I somewhat disagree; I have virtual friends who I've become tight with and I want to meet them when I can afford it. But one who doesn't have good friends in the virtual world doesn't really understand and that's forgivable.
Anyway, I do have quite a bit in common with this guy. He usually messages me more than once every day, it's not really bothersome but he asks the same things all the time and I don't want to bore him by answering the same every time. We haven't arranged to meet again, at least not yet. If he wants to it's cool, I'm kinda leaving it up to him.
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I understand amazing online friends and i most certainly understand not being able to afford it. But i dont think you see all the sides to a person online, such as when they are angry and their behaviors that follow.
I think if you want to meet him, take charge and ask him. If you both want to make things work, he will try his best as you should.
As for boring him, i understand that. So maybe don't respond to all his messages. Keep him waiting and thinking about you. If that dosent suit you then dont do it.