Is it normal to be afraid of sex

I'm terrified of sex and I have no desire to experience it ever. I feel alone because everyone has sex and loves it besides me. I found the right person but I'm always too shaky and nervous to actually go through with it. Help.

Is It Normal?
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  • If you don't feel that you are ready for it don't do it. Someday you will oversome that fear but for now just stay as you are and don't do it just because your friends have done it.

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  • How old are you? Did someone tell you its dirty? is your Mommy a Mormon?

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  • A couple of years ago, I didn't like the thought of sex at all, it disgusted me and I was terrified of it too. After a while I found the right person. I talked to him about my fears and concerns about it. Maybe you should talk to him about it too, you'll feel a bit better after hearing his thoughts about it.

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  • This is just your body/heart/mind's way of telling you that you aren't ready for it. The first time can be nerve racking and scary. But when you're ready, the fear should subside and you'll be able to enjoy it.

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  • Not everyone. I like to masturbate, but I have no interest at all in sex or a relationship. It's not that I'm afraid, I am just not attracted to people.

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