Is it normal to be afraid of asking out a girl?

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at school there is this girl i have liked for a very long time, i asked her out once but she said no, since then i havn't been confident to ask any girls out. i would really love to have a girlfriend but i dont have the guts to ask them out, is this normal?

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  • AntonioL
    12 years ago | pl

    It's normal, you get it off eventualy. At my middle school days I loved a girl, and couldn't ask her out for two years, then when I am on high school we got seperated and after that I regret it so much I asked all of her friends were is she. I found where she is meet with her and told her my true feelings, and since then we are datin about a 4 years. :)

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  • Shackleford96
    12 years ago | pl

    Try just asking if they want to hang out sometime just as "friends," not like a date or anything and see what they say. If they enjoy hanging out with you, then they might like to start dating you too.

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  • Vetterman
    12 years ago | pl

    Its called fear of rejection, and is like the 2nd or 3rd most common fear. Very normal, hope you get over it quickly.

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  • sandinmyambergerbuns
    12 years ago | pl

    its normal. you should keep asking girls you like out though because what are the odds that every single girl will refuse?

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    • SUTHERZz
      12 years ago | pl

      i know but every time a girl says no to me everyone makes fun of me and i think thats what im afraid of

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      • sandinmyambergerbuns
        12 years ago | pl

        hmmm perhaps you could ask in a more private place and not tell people you are gonna ask her out so that way nobody knows if she turns you down.

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