Is it normal to be afraid for your dad?

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Ok my dad is an alcoholic and we does pills and recently he has gotten into some bad things. I love my dad more then anything known to man kind he is my best bud and we get along great I get everything from him and all my life we have been unbelievably close. But the last two or three years court has got involved and j can't see him unless it's supervised but we still don't see each other, recently I found out my dad has been doin meth and is lookin bad (please,please don't judge) but I cry alot and I think about him down and wht it will be like when he does and what I'll do and how sad I'll be.. Pretty much I'm already thinking about his death as if he was dead. Is it normal??

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  • jensapa
    13 years ago

    It's normal for u to luv your dad and be worried about him. Hopefully he can get his shit together an be there for u some day soon.

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  • MJD1242
    13 years ago

    I think what you are feeling is very normal. I think you are kidding yourself some though. He is not giving you the one thing you need the most. Thats is for him to clean himself up. All the material things he buys for you really don't matter. You need a father you can count on. He sounds like the kind of dad that can do it though. chezycheze gave good advise for you

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  • mdp
    13 years ago

    He's an amazin guy everyone thats ever meet him loves him... He's got everyones support and trust me he has been to jail for a year been to hundreds if rehab mainly for alcohol but just recently Kim this month he started the meth

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  • chezycheze
    13 years ago

    Its normal and good to care, think, and worry about the ones that are close to you. Maybe I don't really know what I'm talking about but I think that someone needs to really step in and help your dad or else he will never get better. As a note though, its a dirty job to be the person that steps in. Like he will very likely get very angry on many occasions. I'm not saying you should be the one, you esspecially shouldn't if your still pretty young but its probably a good idea for you to talk to some professionals, like doctors, about his situation.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    what a sad story. what can you do, who can you turn to? i hope someone gives you good advice that you can use to stop your dad killing himself, good luck to the both of you

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