Is it normal to be a virgin when your 21

I've been told by several of my girlfriends that I'm attractive, 6'4, extremely fit, great personality, I just haven't found the right one. The longer I wait the more it seems weird however the more meaning it seems to hold IIN?

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  • In all honesty I think its a good outlook to have about the actual act itself, but when you do finally get around to doing it you will probably not be all that impressed with it.

    I think its good you have morals like this though, just dont have very high expectations for the actual act itself.

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  • fratom

    It is your choice and as you say the ms right has come your way yet who will value and respect your true and honest feeling. Don't feel your different because you are a virgin at 21: you are very normal, very sure of yourself: keep having a healthy mind in your healthy body; When it comes to sex, sadly as the years go by boys and girls are into having under-age sex than in past years: Why? ah sure they think sex is the thing to do to show you care, you bother but don't love or respect the other

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  • Nokiot9

    FUCKIN EVERY DAY WITH THIS SHIT. YES it's normal to be a virgin. Unless you are over 30 I think it's more normal than people think. Everyday someone posts some stupid shit like this without reading the MILLIONS of previously left comments. U aren't special and this is no exception. I hate you for posting this

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  • Jayden0525

    Knock a couple hood rats out the way before you fuck the "right one" you wanna impress and not embarrass yourself but wrap it up dude ;)

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  • gunky17700

    I think when you're ready, do it. I was 16 when I lost it to a college girl 18. I wanted her bad but was scared just like others on the 1st time.
    When I released inside or her(she was on top) there was a huge explosion and her eyes got huge! Told her she was my 1st and a big grin came on her face and she fell down on top of me.
    When I was 18 my car broke down and this couple let me use the phone. The wife looked around 32 and she wanted to have sex and hubby said it's ok.....she and I enjoyed that alot and so did her husband.

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  • chaky92

    Oh your still.a young pecker. I didn't lose mine until I turned 67 and look at me I'm cool

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  • WordWizard

    Say it loud and say it proud. They need a flag for this.

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  • Nogoodusernames

    Sex is a desire and u may have that desire at any age. Also its nice to know thats theres still some good people on this earth who arent sluts. Personally i lost my virginity at 19. I had many oppurtunitys b4 but i turned them down because i didnt want to be a toy. Its normal i have freinds at that age who are virgins but dnt be desprite and take any guy, just wait.

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  • WordWizard

    You are normal. Do not feel like you have to have sex.

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  • rclay1992

    at least you have had girls that have liked you

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  • nervous1

    well this is wierd but you might auction your virginity off on the internet! you could raise your self esteem and money for your favoritr charity. i'm assuming that a high moral fiber is the reason. oh wait a sec...that would be prostitution huh...sorry just having fun. a lovely sexy women i met earlier in life was a virgin until 22. popular in school athletic georgeous. just shy and not ready until she was ready. but what an amayzing lover! so dont worry about lack of experience or being to uptight. this is not abnormal just rare. although watch out for setting yourself up for unrealistic exspectations...it's just sex. not super powers.

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  • I feel the same dude i am a rugby player i go to the gym 5 days a week i play guitar have women tell me im the cutest and nicest guy they met but i have never had the courage to ask girls for sex and most of my female friends are in relationships, im starting to get a little fed up of being a single virgin.

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    • KrunkFu

      You're clearly a complete dork then.. Or you're like 15. If you WANT to have sex and are good looking, and it hasn't been proposed to YOU by at LEAST 20, there is something wrong that you need to fix..

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  • sanziwil

    If you ate 15, why are you here? This site is for ages 18 and greater.

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  • Ldizzy1234

    Its worth the wait. Don't worry about it. Sex should mean something, so you should wait to do it with someone you share something meaningful with.

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  • Naniba

    Im presently 30 and i was not a virgin at the age
    of 13

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  • Short&2thepoint

    Another one. My god there are like twenty of these a day, why do they keep approving them.

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    • Shackleford96

      Lol.

      People don't know what the search bar is for :P

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      • Short&2thepoint

        No shit eh? It even says before you submit it, Make sure it hasnt been submitted a thousand times.

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        • Shackleford96

          There should be a way to penalize offenders >:)

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          • Short&2thepoint

            Agreed. Like not posting. at least...

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            • Shackleford96

              I was thinking more along the lines of torture, but I guess your idea will work too :P

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  • Avant-Garde

    I think it's normal. Eventually, you'll find the one and give them the gift of your virginity.

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