Is it normal to be a virgin at 19?

OK, so Im 19 ive been dating a girl my age and weve been dating for 3 months (we dated for like 6 months before that) we see each other every saturday and 7th of every month. I just want to know is it normal for us not to be having sex? I really want to ask her about it I just dont know how she will respond. I just dont feel like there are other 19 yr olds who are still virgins.

Is It Normal?
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  • At least you have had a date. I never had a girlfriend, a date, a first kiss, or got laid. consider yourself lucky.

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  • Not normal

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  • I've always been taught to get married before sex. I think your been very mature that you have waited, and when you think it's time your gonna ask. Just keep it safe kid. Good luck.

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  • Carolann bc they dated 6months before the 3 months(broke up in between im assuming) so 9 months is a total of the two. No need to rush the sex but u dont know wht ur missing!

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    • I did assume that but sometimes we assumeth too much.

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  • I'm just trying to figure out how you've been dating for nine months but you say three and why you see each other every 7th of the month.

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  • I know some people at university who are still virgins. It's not that uncommon at 19, but I expect you're in the minority. Discuss sex casually with your girlfriend, not directly talking about you and her, and see what she says.

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  • There are 30 year olds who are still virgins. Age has nothing to do with it. If your ready, bring it up. If you aren't, no point in rushing.

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