Is it normal to be a virgin at 20

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I'm a 20 yr old indian boy.
Sex has always been difficult to get.
I did get close to some girls a couple of times.
But haven't really had any girl experience ever. I'm funny, good speaker...have a good body kinda ugly looking though.
Almost 90% of the guys i know are virgins too.
I see tv shows and movies from hollywood that make fun of virgins at 18 or 20.
Is it just me or Indian culture or everywhere?
It's kinda boring now to jerk off for 8 years of my life.
I haven't even kissed a girl for fuck's sake.
PS:There's no system like a Prom out here.

Try not tell me that I'm an ugly loser....
I know it :P .

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  • SomewhatConfusedGirl
    13 years ago

    I'm virgin too! And I'm 21 ^_____^

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    • nasty_heartbreaker
      13 years ago

      Lets meet up then confused girl :P ROFL.

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  • OMGaRunningTree
    12 years ago

    Where do you live? I wish i knew more indians. Pause-are you native american indian or indian from India? hhahah cuz im native american and i always wanted an indian but i dont know any who are actually wholly indian or even loook indian.
    P.S this is normal. I have a 27 year old virgin uncle who's only kissed one person one time. He's not very ugly and hes a nice body and stuff. He isnt "special" or anything. It just ..isn't his time yet i guess.

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  • ZOR69
    13 years ago

    Well, virgins come in all shapes and sizes and ages. Some people lose them at young ages and others don't. You have nothing to be ashamed of. Ugly people don't have to be "losers". It is all in the mind. You have what it takes to be a winner, if you won't put yourself down. Now as for your virginity, my guess is you haven't met the right girl yet. Keep trying and don't give up. Above all, be yourself. Best of luck to you from another "loser". Btw, I eventually did find my soulmate at age 28, married at 30. Lost my virginity to my mom at about age 12! Talk about a "loser", how about being an MF?

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    • nasty_heartbreaker
      13 years ago

      rofl

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Being a virgin at any age is normal..You were born a virgin why not stay one? well..as time goes things change nothing stays the same forever..& girls & guys who have sex probably are sexually active or in deep in love..But i think it is normal.. & your time will come or might not come. But being a virgin is better then not being one. On my side. It shows thier innocence. LOL

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  • G005E3gg
    13 years ago

    At least you don't have AIDS.

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  • almostunreadable
    13 years ago

    You are indoctrinated with crap you watch on TV.

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  • koifish
    13 years ago

    Aww. Nothings wrong with being a virgin. Seriously.

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  • JTLB
    13 years ago

    Adriana Lima is a virgin

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  • zackattack
    11 years ago

    Yeah India is notoriously sexually repressed. In America most kids lose their virginity around 16 or 17. Since everyone else you know is a virgin I wouldn't worry about it though.

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  • alv1592
    13 years ago

    normal..nothing wrong w/ that :)

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  • Proudfear
    13 years ago

    dude your fine im the same way (im 20 to and have done less) , either keep trying or get over it , thats all you can do,your only 20 hell there are 50 year old virgins it could be worse

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Virgins are a very delicate creature, nah im kidding. but no its normal to do that idk bout kiss thing i didnt get mine til like, this year so i cant say anything about it,

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  • FSoul
    13 years ago

    Completely normal. I didn't even have my first kiss till I was 19. Don't worry. Everything in its own time. :) Just experience life slowly. You aren't really missing out on anything anyway :P

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    If you lose your virginity now, you will regret it later. And one day you will find a girl that loves you for who you are and not just what you look like.

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  • MiiSzAmy
    13 years ago

    no it is totally normal to bea virgin even at 20 seriously just wait till you find the right person

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