Same, I only made friends in high school to avoid exactly what you're mentioning. I feel kind of bad, I didn't really like my friends because we have nothing in common, I just had them so I'd have somewhere to sit at lunch and people to work with in group projects. I picked out the social-reject types because they were easy to befriend, and also I could sympathize with them having no one to talk to. On graduation i said goodbye and never talked to them again. that was like 6 years ago and I haven't made any real-life friends since. i just don't have the energy for it...
That's what exactly I'm facing now. Problem doing group projects and no place to sit at lunch. What I can do is wait for a group that doesn't have enough members to pick me, walking while eating my lunch (bread, cookies) if I can, or just skip my lunch and go to library instead.
Is it normal to be a loner?
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Same, I only made friends in high school to avoid exactly what you're mentioning. I feel kind of bad, I didn't really like my friends because we have nothing in common, I just had them so I'd have somewhere to sit at lunch and people to work with in group projects. I picked out the social-reject types because they were easy to befriend, and also I could sympathize with them having no one to talk to. On graduation i said goodbye and never talked to them again. that was like 6 years ago and I haven't made any real-life friends since. i just don't have the energy for it...
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That's what exactly I'm facing now. Problem doing group projects and no place to sit at lunch. What I can do is wait for a group that doesn't have enough members to pick me, walking while eating my lunch (bread, cookies) if I can, or just skip my lunch and go to library instead.