Is it normal to be a lesbian while being married to a loving man

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My husband is a wonderful guy but I went on a weekend away with a friends beautiful grown up daughter as her mum wasn't ale to go due to her work.
To be brief, after a wine fueled evening we returned to our room where we ended up making love. My friends daughter is bi-sexual.

I feel terrible about cheating on my husband with another woman but it just happened and far from regretting what happened, I am now 100% sure that I am lesbian.(not bi)
Is it normal to turn lesbian or is it possible that I always have been. I've been turned on by girls before but always thought I was a bit "curious".
And how do I let my loving husband down by telling him without him thinking its his fault.
I'm 23 yo.

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  • Ineedanswers0811
    6 years ago

    Your best bet is to bring her home and share

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  • imoglily
    6 years ago

    You can't "turn" lesbian, it'll be something that's always been and you just didn't realise, although you say you've been attracted to women before so maybe you did know and didn't acknowledge it.

    Either way, your husband deserves to know and if he cares about your feelings and you as a person he'll be hurt but hopefully supportive. :)

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  • heavensgate89
    6 years ago

    This happens to a LOT of women, you are definitely not alone and often times women don't realize this until much later in life. That said, if possible, you need to tell your husband the truth for both of your emotional well-beings since he is under the impression that you are able to give him something in the relationship that you're not. Be honest with him; if he loves you he'll understand and if he doesn't then fuck him, he's not worth it anyway.

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    • Ineedanswers0811
      6 years ago

      Who is this cunt, if he loves you he'll be a cuck, fuck out of here. How do you knpw hes not worth it

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  • -light-
    6 years ago

    Well you are only 23 (it's not like your 40… because I think that would be different by suddenly 'becoming lesbian') I think it all depends on whether you truly love your husband, or if you just 'use' him in a way. Because that's not right. Don't lead him on it will hurt him even more in the end.

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  • JonathanOo
    6 years ago

    It's common. Just tell him you are curious/attracted at times to some females as well. He would probably understand as long as you don't dich him for someone else

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