Is it normal to be a homewrecker?

It doesn't matter if you hooked up before, he said "no". Sounds like he had to pick between his family and you and he picked the family.

Perhaps now's a good time to find someone for yourself instead of trying to take a husband away from his wife.

If you ever successfully take him away from his wife and child he will never forgive you and cast it up in every argument.

"If it wasn't for you I'd see my child growing up!"

Think about it sensibly... he's going to have no money coz supporting the child, he's going to want to see the child at weekends when you want to go out, he won't have money to take you out, he's going to see his ex-wife frequently and you will feel very insecure... I'm sure there are thousands of reasons why a single girl wouldn't want a married man with a child - but those are a few it took me a few seconds to think of.

You think of all the others and he won't seem so appealing.

Move on and be happy with another single without that baggage!!!

Good luck.

What part of 'no' was difficult to understand.? Leave him alone and let him move on with his life.

Always remember when you start a relationship with lies and deception most likely it will end just the same way....Karma!!! Have self respect, dignity and value yourself worth never be second place in a man's heart.

I'm polyamorous. My.... Mate? Sees other guys casually even though we and another guy are in a 3 way committed relationship. To be honest at 27 I don't understand monogamy, and I never have. I had a single gf my freshman year of hs, it lasted less than a week. I never dated again.