Is it normal to be a guy and look for more than just looks in a relati

Im a girl and i need physical attraction. i think without that theres nothing. we are first physically attracted to someone then everything else follows

Relationships start off with people being physically attracted to anouther person for the most part. It will then either turn into a long healthy relationship if you get along with the other person well, or will end after a short time if it was just based on looks.

I think such an attitude is more prevalent among females, generally speaking.

I am the same way... I couldn't date someone who I don't get along with but looks are still important... My last realtionship was good because she had a mix of the two... Unfortunately it didn't last after High School but I still love her...

Can be the best trophy ever but it has to shine to be outstanding

Well u might apper gay but u and I both know personality is good with a girl but curves are better because a trophy can be

lol i think there should be more men like you i the world

That is not a girl thing and dude this is how you accually accually have to do trust me on my advice if you accually want a girl looks don't really matter the thing that matters is that what they have in there heart or inside like if there cruel,nice and stuff like that and if you don't agree with me well this is the best advice you can accually find...

All I'll say is I completely feel your pain. I'm in that EXACT position right now.

Yes this is normal. I'm pretty much like you. My friends always talk about who they would sleep with or who they would date if they could. Their mostly hung up on looks but I'm not saying I'm not. I do notice when there is a "hot" girl walking by or what not but when I really think about it, I really just want someone who has a funny personality and is just great to be around. Guys always get blamed for being really shallow but in reality I think girls are much more shallow than guys.

It should be MORE normal. :) If being hot was the be all end all, you wouldn't have guys cheating on women like Jennifer Aniston, Elizabeth Hurley, etc. You'll get used to someone's looks even if they are hot, and you'll need something else to keep you interested, like being able to string sentences together, a sense of humour, intelligence, etc.

what your saying is awsome, and kinda rare atleast at a young age, who cares what your friends say about that, i spent most of my life looking for a guy like you, i was asked out time and time again by guys who just said how hot i was all the time, though its nice to know that your bf finds you attractive, it would be nice to hear things like how nice it is to talk to you or how smart or fun you are. your friends may not get it but the girls will, trust me.

Of course it is normal to want more than physical attraction. Why don't you educate them (your friends)? Tell them you can't judge a book by its cover ... that kind of thing ...