For how old you are... No it's not normal. Girls tend to care more about what others think of them when it comes to choosing 'arm candy'. The furthere u get from high school, the more it changes. Girls become women and care less about what others think and more about what they REALLY want in a man. I'd stay away from the 20 and under crowd for that exact reason. For a relationship I mean. I'd also advise you to keep the geek stuff to urself for the first couple dates. Like... Don't start decimalating out PI as far as u can on the first date. Don't ask her if she plays WOW or what she thinks about quantum theory. Just be polite. Charming. And be yourself. Just not TOO much of yourself all at once. Also, some women assume that because you are intillegent and a 'geek' that you won't know how to show them a good time. They assume that an introverted person will have introverted activities. So after u take them to coffee or for a drink (or some other activity that isn't as huge of a commitment as a dinner date) take her somewhere unexpected and fun. It'll get you way further than flowers or diamonds will.
Is it normal to be a good-looking geek that no one wants?
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For how old you are... No it's not normal. Girls tend to care more about what others think of them when it comes to choosing 'arm candy'. The furthere u get from high school, the more it changes. Girls become women and care less about what others think and more about what they REALLY want in a man. I'd stay away from the 20 and under crowd for that exact reason. For a relationship I mean. I'd also advise you to keep the geek stuff to urself for the first couple dates. Like... Don't start decimalating out PI as far as u can on the first date. Don't ask her if she plays WOW or what she thinks about quantum theory. Just be polite. Charming. And be yourself. Just not TOO much of yourself all at once. Also, some women assume that because you are intillegent and a 'geek' that you won't know how to show them a good time. They assume that an introverted person will have introverted activities. So after u take them to coffee or for a drink (or some other activity that isn't as huge of a commitment as a dinner date) take her somewhere unexpected and fun. It'll get you way further than flowers or diamonds will.