Not really abnormal. Half of the females on this world believe in a "I've been in a relationship with a guy so I know I love him" type of love, which explains why there are so many single mothers, due to them not really knowing the guy they decided to have a baby with. The other half know what love is and plan out relationships and get an idea of their relationship before throwing the words "I love you" around.
There's a lot of negative stereotyping in your comment, young man. You have a lot to learn about love, relationships, single mothers, and the "other half" of the female population. But nice try. :P
So, you're telling me that a woman having a child with a man they don't know well enough about to know he'll not be commited to parenthood is not one of the reasons we have single mothers? It's either that or:
A. Mostly all single mothers are stupid and fall for the typical male's word.
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B: She intentionally had the baby when she knew the man wasn't ready to be a father.
So yes, it was a nice try, a pretty accurate one aswell.
But I'm curious. Why do you think we have so many single mothers?
Then once you have your answer, say this after it.
"Was having a baby with the man a good idea? Shouldn't she of known that the person she "loved" didn't really want to be a father yet? Or perhaps doesn't ever want to be one? Shouldn't I know this from the person I "love"?
I have a pretty firm grasp on all of those things. Some people just like to think that love is a fairytale when it obviously isn't. Sure, maybe the greatest happyness can be achieved through love, but not in the sense that most people seem to think it does.
But still, I want your say on the matter, what do you think these three things are. Giving that you say I'm wrong, you must know what all three are.
It's impossible for a woman to predict whether the man will stick around after having the baby.
Their relationship could easily change over the pregnancy, which neither of them could predict; they still could have been in love though.
The man might act eager and may really feel that way, but when reality kicks in, they may not be able to deal with it, so they bail. How on earth could the woman predict this?
Also, a lot of single mothers are single because after the baby was born the relationship didn't work out. Nobody can predict another persons behaviour, even if they are in love.
Is it normal to be a girl and not really believe in love?
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Not really abnormal. Half of the females on this world believe in a "I've been in a relationship with a guy so I know I love him" type of love, which explains why there are so many single mothers, due to them not really knowing the guy they decided to have a baby with. The other half know what love is and plan out relationships and get an idea of their relationship before throwing the words "I love you" around.
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There's a lot of negative stereotyping in your comment, young man. You have a lot to learn about love, relationships, single mothers, and the "other half" of the female population. But nice try. :P
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So, you're telling me that a woman having a child with a man they don't know well enough about to know he'll not be commited to parenthood is not one of the reasons we have single mothers? It's either that or:
A. Mostly all single mothers are stupid and fall for the typical male's word.
or
B: She intentionally had the baby when she knew the man wasn't ready to be a father.
So yes, it was a nice try, a pretty accurate one aswell.
But I'm curious. Why do you think we have so many single mothers?
Then once you have your answer, say this after it.
"Was having a baby with the man a good idea? Shouldn't she of known that the person she "loved" didn't really want to be a father yet? Or perhaps doesn't ever want to be one? Shouldn't I know this from the person I "love"?
I have a pretty firm grasp on all of those things. Some people just like to think that love is a fairytale when it obviously isn't. Sure, maybe the greatest happyness can be achieved through love, but not in the sense that most people seem to think it does.
But still, I want your say on the matter, what do you think these three things are. Giving that you say I'm wrong, you must know what all three are.
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It's impossible for a woman to predict whether the man will stick around after having the baby.
Their relationship could easily change over the pregnancy, which neither of them could predict; they still could have been in love though.
The man might act eager and may really feel that way, but when reality kicks in, they may not be able to deal with it, so they bail. How on earth could the woman predict this?
Also, a lot of single mothers are single because after the baby was born the relationship didn't work out. Nobody can predict another persons behaviour, even if they are in love.