Is it normal to be a feminist yet be sexually submissive?
I say feminist in that I think there needs to be equal rights etc for women, i hate misogyny, sexism, or discrimination of any kind. In my work and social life I am pretty confident, out going and can easily stand up for myself. And let me just say that I abhor the idea of sexual/domestic abuse or anything of the sort.
However, being dominated in my sex life really turns me on. I love the feeling of not being in control. The thought that a man is using me as a sexual object in order to please himself is a massive turn on. I have not always acted on them but I have some pretty extreme fantasies including, rape fantasies, kidnapping, fantasies of being kept naked in a cage, of being sold as a slave, of being tied naked to a pole with men being able use me as I please, of being branded, as being trained as a dog, of me being used as furniture. The list goes on.
What worries me is that these sexual fantasies go so extremely against my morals and beliefs of my normal day to day life.
So, IS THIS NORMAL??!