Don't call yourself a doormat. I think the worst thing you can do is trying to be aggressive or cold when you are not, coz you could be hurting people that you don't mean to hurt. Unfortunately, like you said a lot of people can tell that you tend to avoid conflict and push your limits to see how far can you accommodate to them.
Conflict is not bad, you have to counterattack and put people in their place when they are taking advantage of you. Try to speak your mind, say everything you are thinking at the moment, don't worry if you piss off people you can always apologize later
Is it normal to be a doormat?
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Don't call yourself a doormat. I think the worst thing you can do is trying to be aggressive or cold when you are not, coz you could be hurting people that you don't mean to hurt. Unfortunately, like you said a lot of people can tell that you tend to avoid conflict and push your limits to see how far can you accommodate to them.
Conflict is not bad, you have to counterattack and put people in their place when they are taking advantage of you. Try to speak your mind, say everything you are thinking at the moment, don't worry if you piss off people you can always apologize later