Is it normal to be a 32 year old virgin

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I'm a 32 year old female who happens to be a virgin. I'm pretty attractive and have been hit on by men before, and have actually had a few stalkers. I believe that a woman's virginity should be shared with her husband or someone she's in love with, but I have a fear of emotional commitment. I'm afraid of caring about somebody so much, and it not working out. I also don't have a lot of time to date. I work full time and go to school full time. Is this normal?

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  • DavidD
    12 years ago | pl

    Better do it quick if you want children. A woman's eggs will start to rot soon, and you wouldn't really want children with deformities.

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    • chewy
      12 years ago | pl

      Better do it quick? thats not even thinkable when people do that it always risks that chance of those nasty diseases.

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  • gyozaboi
    7 years ago | pl

    No worries. I'm a 32 year old man and I'm a virgin. But there are specific reasons why. I'm gay and in the closet. My family and community, work, the whole state, are extremely conservative Christians, I am too. I still hold on to those beliefs very strongly. Hence I haven't dated anyone. However, I have been questioning the rules of the religion for a long time now and yearn to be with someone. I just don't have a plan for the fallout after I come out yet. To say it would be dire is an understatement.

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  • ilovetolaugh
    10 years ago | pl

    i think ur an awesome lady for doing that. i'm a 32 year old male virgin and i'm trying to get to know people like you to help keep me stay strong because up till now i thought i was the only one around my age that was a virgin , then i read ur comment,u r a blessing . God bless you.

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  • JohnnieBoy
    10 years ago | pl

    This is a question to the women and women only. Would a woman stay in the area you live in because she might still have feelings for you or is she just doing lots of years of studying to get a masters or whatever? Is there a chance she does not leave where she lives even though she could because she is old enough and independent because she wants to stay close to you? I have feelings for her but every time i see her pass by on the street or see her i can never get the guts to talk to her. I consider myself a fuck-up so i don't have much self-esteem to talk to her.

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  • chewy
    12 years ago | pl

    Why not make it the 40 year old vigin? ha ha

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    • lastknownvirgin
      12 years ago | pl

      Most guys are all guys are dooschbags im a really attractive 34 year old virgin, I never had a guy interested in me, I worked for major corporation and no guy has asked me out ever, my coworker and one of my jobs sat next too me and use to tell me that i smell like horse shit and that i was a loser. Another guy told me he had a girlfriend and told me to go to the bar and buy myself a drink i have gotten dog shit and italian food sent to me for valentines day. I have never been with a man most of them are dooschbags any way they think the minute a girl goes down on them and they have sex that there god. I m not a lesbian its just that guys like the type of girl that s easy and answers there home and cell phones and read s their emails and texts. I mean most guys need a secretary in their life and i feel bad for them most guy s that i like u know they already have a girlfriend that they love and loves them if you need a girl that bad to ans wer and read your texts i feel bad for them
      i mean the best bet is knowing that im never going to have sex ever what was that wait i forget no guy wants to date me cause they use to call me stinky in school and i fart too much and have no money well thats it guess im going to be buying my own valentines day gift
      again.

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      • lastknownvirgin
        12 years ago | pl

        I have never made out or kissed a guy cause my breath smells like shit and Im slow im 34 i fart a lot and i have no money no man has ever asked me out on date cause im a loser. If a man likes you he would ask you out on a date not tell you to go to the bar and buy yourself a drink what was that oh yeah im hard of hearing, by the way im a virgin and im 34 some say masturbation is healthy though but i dont do it most people that come to the place i work at think im a lesbian and they call me sir i dont fix my self up but i loves ignoranant morons like that say done for the day retard yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeaah

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  • LoserVirgin
    12 years ago | pl

    Let me in baby

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  • chubbawubba69
    12 years ago | pl

    You're going to be all dried up downstairs by the time you let a guy in.

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    • lastknownvirgin
      12 years ago | pl

      Its already dried up, Im thirty four and its dry as a bone. What was that after his girlfriend gives him a blow job for valentines day, Just go to the bar and buy yourself a drink and get laid and go on vacation.I have special needs so that mean s Im slow, sort of what they say mentally retarded with a touch of asss-burgers syndrome. I mean people would call up my job and say I feel sooo sorry for you. yeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah. I want it soooo bad but its just not gonna happen plus I fart tooo much and I have no money. bye bye now.-)

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  • FocoUS
    12 years ago | pl

    You are missing out.

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  • Tisgranum
    12 years ago | pl

    It isn't the norm, but who cares? You should be worrying about finding happiness; no matter what that may be for you.

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