Is it normal to be a 22 year-old virgin?

I'm 21 going on 22 and a girl. I had boyfriends, been kissed and been hugged but it seems I can't get a guy to be with me long enough. most of my friends lost their virginity at 16-17 sometimes younger, I feel like such a loser, will the time ever come? IIN?

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  • Tempest-au

    Almost 22! My my, you are destined to be an old maid aren't you (sarcasm intended).

    Assuming you are deeply religious and believe sex before marriage is a sin, it's "Not that unusual" to be a virgin at 22. Note however, even for a really devoutly religious person, as you haven't even got a boyfriend at this point, you are reaching your "use by date".

    If the above doesn't apply, it could well be that you are losing boyfriends because you refuse to "put out". If I REALLY liked a woman (and I mean really liked her, as in we were like best friends and I was keen to take it further), I might like stretch it to say 2-3 months, but if we were not in the sack by then I'd be looking elsewhere. May not be "nice", but at least I'm honest about it.

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  • berkano

    You must be fat.
    Go on a diet.
    Things like bbw.
    Might as well be a u.f.o.
    Or bigfoot.
    No Such Thing.
    Get in shape, and smile.
    You will get all the dick you want.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Don't compare yourself to others! You are NOT A LOSER! I lost my virginity to my first love when I was 19 and he was 21. Don't be in a rush to lose your virginity, save yourself for someone you love. I saved myself and to this day, 27 years later, I have no regrets! Be yourself and love yourself just the way you are.

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  • melodyacoba

    We have exactly the same situation!!!!! I'm also 22 and still virgin. I had ex boyfriends but nothing happened just passionate kissing I am very afraid to get pregnant though. My parents would probably be upset if that happens.

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  • PervertedLonerGirl

    And so what? noone has to know that you are. Im also 22, not a virgin but many of my classmates are and they are still alive...you can still fap if you miss sex, I do that too because Im in a long distance relationship and I see my bf once in 2 weeks. Btw no guy will know if you were a virgin or not if you masturbate enough...

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  • Digsbie

    the time will come when its right

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Don't worry about it and don't be in such a hurry.

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  • cashmere7

    I didnt lose my virginity until I was 22. I didnt feel like it wasnt normal even though I did sometimes want sex.

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  • mokuton

    Just fuck someone and get it over with

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