Is it normal to be 35 and never really lived?

"I'm 35, ok looking, friendly, successful, and really smart."

That's like,your opinion.

"I've never had a girlfriend in my life"

That says it all.

"I don't have any friends who live in the city where I live."

Maybe you are just not the kind of guy everyone wants to be around for some obscure reason.

"I have attended two of the best and most famous universities in the world"

That makes you very attractive.Not really.

"I'm great at my job, I own my own home, and I have been told that I have a great heart"

What is this?A speedate? I can use a great heart tho.Mine is kind of failing.

"I feel very lonely and that people don't want to speak with me."

I wonder why.Do you wonder why?

"I'm always by myself,either reading or working on something."

You are the only one who knows what you are working on.I assume it's not something you want someone to know.

"I do talk to others,but they don't show much interest."

Yeah,what were you saying?

"What can I do?"

Mail order Russian/Japanese bride.
I heard they are cheap.