Is it normal to be 20 and never had an orgasm?

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I'm 20 years old, female, and I have never once had an orgasm. I've been masturbating since I was around 5 but through all the years never actually "came". In middle school kids started talking about having orgasms when they were younger after having sexy dreams, but I didn't understand what they were walking about. Since then I've heard and read about how it feels to orgasm and It sounds like someone trying to explain an alien ritual. They say i'm very unlucky but I don't really notice much because you can't miss what you never had. Anyone else like me.. I masturbate maybe every day or every 5 days with no success but don't really obsess about my body's sexual disfunction just try enjoy what I can. I'm a virgin, and don't get horny because I don't get much pleasure from sexual stimulation.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    You started masturbating since you were 5? Damn.

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  • Captain_Kegstand
    11 years ago

    There are tons of "toys" out there designed to help people in your exact situation. Check some of the options out online, or at your local adult store!

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  • ashaleleigh
    11 years ago

    I think its completely normal i dont think ive ever had an organism, i think ive felt like i have but i dont think anything came out and ive had sex with 6 different guys

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  • GuessWho
    11 years ago

    If you don't get orgasms, then why do you masturbate?

    Isn't the whole point of masturbation to have an orgasm?

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    • desqueiroux
      11 years ago

      Geez!

      For the pleasure of it? Or maybe to TRY to reach orgasm?

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  • Aleks85
    11 years ago

    I'll give you an orgasm, as long as you don't outweigh me.

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  • BicuriousChick
    11 years ago

    I'm almost 24 and have never had an orgasm. I hear it's actually pretty common.

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