Is it normal to be 22 and never had a relationship...

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Hi I am 22, male, not ugly(abit chubby though) and have never been in a relationship. My friends tell me one day I'll find some one, but I dunno I feel like that day will never come. I have little confidence, and it just gets worse over the years... I am so depressed about it, I wish I didn't long for a relationship but I do...

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  • Jen118584
    14 years ago

    Guru is just angry because the women that are way out of his league only want him for his money.

    That is not what real woman are like. My advice to you is to get to the gym. I'm being serious. There is nothing wrong with being a little chubby, but getting in a little bit better shape will help you feel better about yourself, and get your endorphins flowing to put you in a better mood. Women LOVE confident men. I know you've heard this a million times, but it's so true. I can't think of anything more attractive than confidence, and anything less attractive than a man who doesn't think he's worth a damn.

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  • TheTodd11
    13 years ago

    Hit the gym it builds testosterone, which help to attract females....Plus it helps your confidence as well

    not saying you have to be a gym rat, lose a few pounds

    or hit up a dating site

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  • bleach_baby
    13 years ago

    This has little to do with the way you look. My brother is the same age as you and in exactly the same position. My advice to you would be try an internet dating site like okcupid, where you can get to know someone before you meet them face to face. The first guy who commented is obviously bitter and shooting way out of his league, try not to get all bitter like him because girls can smell it from a mile away :)

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  • chi_z
    14 years ago

    as a bit of help, it's not what you say to the women but how you say it, tone of voice is important, right with self confidence. if you are sure you will get her number, 9 times out of 10 you will. if you are just looking to get laid then copy her breathing (breath at same pace) and any gestures she may do a lot, but be very subtle with it otherwise it's obvious.

    after that you could use another form of hypnosis, called stacking realities, this goes beyond her conscious mind and taps into the unconscious, so even if she doesn't want you, her brain will. just look up stacking realities on google, its not that complicated but takes a while to type out.

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  • TheGuruOfTheSauce
    14 years ago

    there is a easy and simple solution to it really, all you have to do is have a steady income. Once that is done go find a hooker, NOT TO HAVE SEX WITH and explain to her this. I've never been in a relationship and I am looking for help/ preparation on how it would feel like to be in one. You then bring her out to eat, buy her anything she wants and listen to her boring as stories and complaints while hoping shes full cuz you need some left over to buy her those $600 boots, your bills will have to put off until next week. Around the end of the night you walk her door and hint at coming in which is when she will say that she feels tired, you will then say "oh yeah ok you're right its pretty late". She'll tell you to pick her up tomorrow so you guys can do something, meaning spend your money

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