Maybe if you were totally honest with those who know you that you've never had a boyfriend then they could help you. Honesty is key; loads of people meet partners through their friends helping them out, but yours probably don't realise that you'd appreciate help from them. At the very least they'd be more tactful discussing their V-Day plans around you if they knew. You'll be less down once your secret is out to all your friends because it'll seem like less of a burden.
Also, is it possible that you seem "too friendly"? If you hang out with guys a lot they might see you as friendship not relationship material, so they won't bother to ask you out for fear of being friend-zoned by you. Other guys who see you flirting with guys will probably be put off you because they perceive there to be too much competition. They might even think you are a slut if you flirt with guys you don't even like.
IIN to be 18 and Never had a boyfriend!?
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Maybe if you were totally honest with those who know you that you've never had a boyfriend then they could help you. Honesty is key; loads of people meet partners through their friends helping them out, but yours probably don't realise that you'd appreciate help from them. At the very least they'd be more tactful discussing their V-Day plans around you if they knew. You'll be less down once your secret is out to all your friends because it'll seem like less of a burden.
Also, is it possible that you seem "too friendly"? If you hang out with guys a lot they might see you as friendship not relationship material, so they won't bother to ask you out for fear of being friend-zoned by you. Other guys who see you flirting with guys will probably be put off you because they perceive there to be too much competition. They might even think you are a slut if you flirt with guys you don't even like.