You're 23, still early in your twenties. You're prime and life arent over (what a terrible thing to say) until you make it over. Even though I'm only 19, I'm experiencing similar things. I've come to accept that people come and go, and someday there will be some that stick around. Don't be too hard on yourself, sometimes its easier for others, that's just how life is.
For the job, perhaps seeking a new job. Maybe look on craigslist for non-mainstream jobs.
The school environment is a great place to start socializing. In highschool I barely had friends because I didn't dress like everyone or drank and had parties. That all changed when I started college. I made plenty of friends, just by being myself and making an effort in class. I was miss little social butterfly and my personality bloomed. You have to start somewhere. Maybe not the first day, but make an effort to speak up.
As for the girlfriend, one day it'll happen. Try to be patient, you will find the one, or she will find you. It's too bad the media glorifies early marriage and stuff like that. Put it this way, you're too young to really want to settle. Ride the wave of your life and stay afloat wherever it takes you. Have patience, nice guys (unfortunately) finish last, but with a nice prize.
Is it normal to be 23 and be living a boring life w/o good friends?
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You're 23, still early in your twenties. You're prime and life arent over (what a terrible thing to say) until you make it over. Even though I'm only 19, I'm experiencing similar things. I've come to accept that people come and go, and someday there will be some that stick around. Don't be too hard on yourself, sometimes its easier for others, that's just how life is.
For the job, perhaps seeking a new job. Maybe look on craigslist for non-mainstream jobs.
The school environment is a great place to start socializing. In highschool I barely had friends because I didn't dress like everyone or drank and had parties. That all changed when I started college. I made plenty of friends, just by being myself and making an effort in class. I was miss little social butterfly and my personality bloomed. You have to start somewhere. Maybe not the first day, but make an effort to speak up.
As for the girlfriend, one day it'll happen. Try to be patient, you will find the one, or she will find you. It's too bad the media glorifies early marriage and stuff like that. Put it this way, you're too young to really want to settle. Ride the wave of your life and stay afloat wherever it takes you. Have patience, nice guys (unfortunately) finish last, but with a nice prize.