This happened to me and my husband soon after we got married at 21 years old. He had lost a brother in an accident and was very depressed. He never wanted sex and it made me feel very insecure and it was a huge trial on our marriage. Over time, we got through it together and he has been able to work through the loss of his brother- and now we want sex every single day! So there is a good chance that one or both of you could be suffering from depression.
Be careful to let her know its not her fault because even if it is not a bog deal to you, she could be feeling extremely insecure about the situation. Work together and you will get through it. Good luck!
Is it normal to be 21 and already passed your sexual prime?
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This happened to me and my husband soon after we got married at 21 years old. He had lost a brother in an accident and was very depressed. He never wanted sex and it made me feel very insecure and it was a huge trial on our marriage. Over time, we got through it together and he has been able to work through the loss of his brother- and now we want sex every single day! So there is a good chance that one or both of you could be suffering from depression.
Be careful to let her know its not her fault because even if it is not a bog deal to you, she could be feeling extremely insecure about the situation. Work together and you will get through it. Good luck!